Slo
Thu May 14th, 2009, 01:15 PM
These Deadly Common Mistakes…
-By Dr Slo
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A Nice Girl
Just get along with our dog and friends.... and be good in bed, we don't care about any other nice'ness....
MISTAKE #2: Trying To convince the guy To Like You"
Again, very simple, get along with our dog and friends.....be good in bed. Buy liquor once in a while for us is a bonus. This will convince us to like you
MISTAKE #3: Looking for His Approval Or Permission
Don't mess with our dog, friends, or male material things (cars, bikes, tools, etc), and be good in bed, that will gain our approval or permission
MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy His Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a man out to a nice dinner, bought him useless gifts, and had him REJECT you for someone who didn't treat him even HALF as well as you did?
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens…
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me in bed, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to men as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that men see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In
The Relationship With him
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Men get a LOT of attention from women.
Most women don't realize this, but men are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
A man is often approached several times a DAY by women who may be interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Men have usually dated a LOT of women.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns a men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything is a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals the man that you're just like all the other women who fall for him too fast… and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way… again, be good in bed
MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Men
Men are VERY different from women when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. Men like women who look like they would be good in bed.
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that women make is giving up before they've even gotten started… because they think that men are only interested in women who have looks and money… or women who are a certain height… or women who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some men who are interested in these things.
But MOST men are far more interested in a woman's personality in bed than her wallet or her looks, as long as she isn't disgustingly fugly.
There are personality traits that attract men like a magnet…
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these women.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a certain man just because you aren't rich, tall, or beautiful.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, man.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To men
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of women use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to men.
Said differently, women try to get men to like them by doing whatever the man wants.
This is not a bad idea, just not enough women doing this....
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With men
Now I'm going to blow your mind…
It is extremely important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a man… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most women from EVER having the kind of success with men that they truly want.
I know, women don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. They don't like to ask for help.
For gods sake, or allah's, or whoever the hell you believe in, ask for help from the man on how to do things right...
-By Dr Slo
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A Nice Girl
Just get along with our dog and friends.... and be good in bed, we don't care about any other nice'ness....
MISTAKE #2: Trying To convince the guy To Like You"
Again, very simple, get along with our dog and friends.....be good in bed. Buy liquor once in a while for us is a bonus. This will convince us to like you
MISTAKE #3: Looking for His Approval Or Permission
Don't mess with our dog, friends, or male material things (cars, bikes, tools, etc), and be good in bed, that will gain our approval or permission
MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy His Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a man out to a nice dinner, bought him useless gifts, and had him REJECT you for someone who didn't treat him even HALF as well as you did?
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens…
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me in bed, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to men as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that men see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In
The Relationship With him
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Men get a LOT of attention from women.
Most women don't realize this, but men are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
A man is often approached several times a DAY by women who may be interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Men have usually dated a LOT of women.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns a men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything is a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals the man that you're just like all the other women who fall for him too fast… and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way… again, be good in bed
MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Men
Men are VERY different from women when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. Men like women who look like they would be good in bed.
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that women make is giving up before they've even gotten started… because they think that men are only interested in women who have looks and money… or women who are a certain height… or women who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some men who are interested in these things.
But MOST men are far more interested in a woman's personality in bed than her wallet or her looks, as long as she isn't disgustingly fugly.
There are personality traits that attract men like a magnet…
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these women.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a certain man just because you aren't rich, tall, or beautiful.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, man.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To men
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of women use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to men.
Said differently, women try to get men to like them by doing whatever the man wants.
This is not a bad idea, just not enough women doing this....
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With men
Now I'm going to blow your mind…
It is extremely important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a man… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most women from EVER having the kind of success with men that they truly want.
I know, women don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. They don't like to ask for help.
For gods sake, or allah's, or whoever the hell you believe in, ask for help from the man on how to do things right...