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mtnairlover
Fri Sep 22nd, 2006, 07:53 AM
I just had too...




When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.

When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a
bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a
bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.


It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it.
I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.


B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself
daemon
Fri Sep 22nd, 2006, 08:32 AM
you can call me a bastard,but i have no comment
mtnairlover
Fri Sep 22nd, 2006, 08:55 AM
Ok...bastard...:D

No, what you're supposed to say is "you go girl!" :up:

It's amazing to me, but I don't necessarily think it's being 'bitchy'...I see it as being in control. Or, as my 15-year-old daughter told me recently..."I see you as a 'strong' person."

So, to all those ladies out there who get the 'bitch' comment a little more often than you think is necessary...no, it's not that you're a bitch, you're just a strong person.

Actually, I know the difference between a bitch and a strong woman...a bitch doesn't care who she steps on...a strong woman actually does care and still finds a way to do as she pleases without stepping on others.
daemon
Fri Sep 22nd, 2006, 09:02 AM
...a bitch doesn't care who she steps on...

don't tell me you know my 2 ex-wives:crazy:
mtnairlover
Fri Sep 22nd, 2006, 09:09 AM
don't tell me you know my 2 ex-wives:crazy:

No wonder strong women have such a bad rep...No, I don't know them...I don't like to associate with people who could give a rip. They tend to make me quite moody...um, bitchy:lol:
dapper
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 02:13 PM
What's the definition of happiness? :p
Gramps
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 02:34 PM
"power to the sisters"

is one of my wife's favorite sayings
mtnairlover
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 02:47 PM
you create your own happiness...ie. no person, or thing can "make" you happy
dapper
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 02:51 PM
:lol:Yeah, I didn't mean it literally sweety!
mtnairlover
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 03:10 PM
And, because I don't know you from Adam...I'm supposed to know that you were bein' sarcastic...even with the :p?

Sorry, Dan...sometimes I just get lost in my own lil' world;)
dapper
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 03:19 PM
No worries! I'm a bit cheeky right now.
:cheers:
Mel
Wed Oct 4th, 2006, 03:30 PM
hehe, "cheeky"