Yeah, which is why I don't really get into PvP. Had enough of it playing Ultima Online. Most games these days it is an option rather then mandatory.
Still miss the good ol' days of pen-and-paper playing (until 3am), drinking beer, eating questionable food and laughing at truly geeky stuff. Like playing Illuminati and making Barney the messiah and giving him orbital mind control lasers....good times.