10 mistakes guys make

[MetaLord 9]

What are the five languages of love?

missionary, doggy, girl on top, reverse cowboy, and I think wheelbarrow, but I could be wrong about that last one...

[Shea]

What are the five languages of love?

They are how you express and best receive love. Would you rather have a hug or a card? How do you tell someone you love them? Mine, in order are...

Physical Touch
Quality Time
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Gifts

A little "false dilemma" quiz to figure out yours. http://edified.org/myspace/lovelanguage

What happened to clubbing a women and dragging her to your cave by her hair?

Women's liberation happened. Next thing you know they'll be owning property and voting...

[MetaLord 9]

A little "false dilemma" quiz to figure out yours. http://edified.org/myspace/lovelanguage

That is, perhaps, the gayest quiz I've ever seen. Even gayer than the "are you gay" quiz.

I'm take'n it!

[Pandora-11]

Bullshit. The author has decided to equate "nice" with "pushover". I've dated "really attractive" women and I'm very nice, very respectful and still believe in chivalry.

No self-respecting woman is going to date a jerk. Sorry to burst your bubble Mr. DeAngelo. There is a lot of psychological reasons for a woman staying in an emotionally abusive relationship...because she is hot is NOT one of them.

Trying to imply that you have to be a douchebag in order to get a "really attractive" woman is probably the dumbest thing I've heard.


Yeah, have some self-respect man. She doesn't like? Move on. Nothing worse then coming across as a desperate loser.


Men are supposed to be confident in a relationship. Unfortunately we have been taught in this society to be more like women, instead of men. Net result - Lots of guys looking to build "consensus" instead of making a decision.

God this guy has a superficial grasp of male/female interaction...

Women are genetically pre-programed to look for a good provider. Someone able to take care of them and their potential offspring. No women wants a guy who is unemployed and living in their parent's basement. That being said, some guy who makes it a point to flaunt his worldly possessions is just looking for another one (with boobs) and women can smell it.

However, giving gifts (one of the five languages of love) may be how he shows love or how the lady recieves it. How and why the gifts are given are of monumental importance.

Think there is a little bit more nuance to this then this guy understands, but in general, yeah, it's bad form to tell a woman you love her on the second date.

Emotional intimacy comes much later in a relationship. In marketing, you never tell your prospective client the price up front. You show them all the positives first, tell them why they can't live without your product and then once they're sold you tell them the cost. Same with dating. Always stay positive, show her what a great catch you are, and only after you have built that rapport (and thus the necessary framework to communicate and process as a couple) do you express some of the less then flatering aspects of your life. No, this does not mean you gloss over that you been married five times, have 16 kids and have every STD known to man...

You mean women are different then men? Took you five years to figure that one out eh?

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The human psyche loves if-then statements (don't we Sully? ).

Totally agree with this one. But once again, this is the way men are conditioned. Women want men to behave, think and act like women (watch Oprah sometime and you'll see exactly what I mean). Women think men are lazy because we don't understand how to talk to them. Well guess what ladies, you don't do the work to understand us either.

We aren't wired like you, we literally think differently then you and the way we communicate is (big shocker) completely opposite the way you do. You also possess a far greater catalogue of emotions (and the skills to express them) then we EVER will. Some of this has to do with the distrubution of labor in our early history (hunter v. gatherers) and some has to do with the various hormones that we play with (1 for us, 3 for you).


Bullshit, once again. "Women" are not some monolithic, factory produced clone. Every woman is different. A man will be successful if he pays attention, finds out what makes a women happy and provides that for her. Yes, there are some universal truths but even then, the proportions can be different. To much of X, is never a good thing.


Honestly I think this guy is a waste of time. Nothing enlightening to his "how to score with hot chicks" methodology. All it comes down to is knowing who you are, knowing what you want and being open to letting it come to you. Don't settle or it will end badly for everyone...

...and YOU need to get your own show....think a Dr. Phil version with sass.
Wish I had time to expound on this the way you guys have done.

Barn.....can I call you "B"....sunglasses? I love you...seriously! (Is it too early to say that?)

Ya'll seriously need to give the Ninja some pointers...he's clueless.

[~Barn~]

An "Are you gay?" quiz?? Really?

Let us know how you did Chris, because I noticed you typed Reverse Cowboy earlier, and not Reverse Cowgirl.

I'm just sayin'....

[Shea]

That is, perhaps, the gayest quiz I've ever seen. Even gayer than the "are you gay" quiz.

I'm take'n it!

You are a walking stereotype...

[Pandora-11]

I'm still going for the beating my chest, tearing leaves, and throwing dung thing....

lol How's that working for ya?

[Shea]

...and YOU need to get your own show....think a Dr. Phil version with sass.
Wish I had time to expound on this the way you guys have done.

Barn.....can I call you "B"....sunglasses? I love you...seriously! (Is it too early to say that?)

Ya'll seriously need to give the Ninja some pointers...he's clueless.

lol, yeah if I can just come up with the 100k+ it will cost me to go to DU and get my PhD in Psychology I'm outta here...great program, just wayyyyy too expensive.

[Pandora-11]

They are how you express and best receive love. Would you rather have a hug or a card? How do you tell someone you love them? Mine, in order are...

Physical Touch
Quality Time
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Gifts

OK...changed my mind....I love you instead. Where have you been all of my life?

[~Barn~]

Pffft... Thanks Dora.

I want those damn sunglasses back!

[Big-J]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Shea
They are how you express and best receive love. Would you rather have a hug or a card? How do you tell someone you love them? Mine, in order are...

Physical Touch
Quality Time
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Gifts

OK...changed my mind....I love you instead. Where have you been all of my life?

With other dudes?

[Pandora-11]

Pffft... Thanks Dora.

I want those damn sunglasses back!

Here was my Lang of love test results....It will explain my thinking.

Physical touch 11
Quality time 9
Words of affirmation 7
Acts of service 2
Gifts 1

In other words, I thrive on attention! duh I like the sunglasses though...can I keep them?

[MetaLord 9]

...and YOU need to get your own show....think a Dr. Phil version with sass.

Yep. That's Shea. Dr. Phil but with a shirt so tight you could swear he painted it on.

An "Are you gay?" quiz?? Really?

Let us know how you did Chris, because I noticed you typed Reverse Cowboy earlier, and not Reverse Cowgirl.

I'm just sayin'....

It's the name of the position, not the participants there Brokeback Barn. Unless there's something you're not telling us when you go doggystyle...

You are a walking stereotype...

not true. Sometimes I take the bus!

[Shea]

With other dudes?

Yeah, Shea is comfortable talking about emotions, relationships, and what he wants so he MUST be gay! Guess I should just hide behind a haze of bong smoke to be a man eh J?

[~Barn~]

Here was my Lang of love test results....It will explain my thinking.

Yeah-yeah-yeah.... I got your test results right here.

[Shea]

Yep. That's Shea. Dr. Phil but with a shirt so tight you could swear he painted it on.

Don't be jealousy Chris.

[Pandora-11]

Too funny!!

[Big-J]

I thrive on attention! duh

Duh is right, and so do 99% of women!

Its all good though, cuz I like giving the attention!

[ultracyber]

Your Detailed Results:
Physical Touch: 10
Quality Time: 7
Words of Affirmation: 7
Acts of Service: 5
Receiving Gifts: 1

[MetaLord 9]

EIGHT major STDs? Guess I never really counted...which 8 are the major ones & what counts as minor?

"Hey baby, it's ok if I don't wrap it, I've only got a couple minor leaguers..."

[~Barn~]

Hi there. Would you like to have coffee sometime? Maybe dinner? How about some dick?

[/Chris Rock]

[Pandora-11]

Hi there. Would you like to have coffee sometime? Maybe dinner? How about some dick?

[/Chris Rock]

Rotf

[Big-J]

Yeah, Shea is comfortable talking about emotions, relationships, and what he wants so he MUST be gay! Guess I should just hide behind a haze of bong smoke to be a man eh J?

No, then you would be a criminal!
Yeah Shea, the bong smoke makes you a man.

[Shea]

No, then you would be a criminal!
Yeah Shea, the bong smoke makes you a man.

Pfft, if I've learned anything from you and Barn, it's that just because I break the law doesn't mean I'm a criminal

And I'll pass on the pot. Never had any desire to use the stuff. But to quote Seinfeld..."not that there's anything wrong with that".