10 mistakes guys make

[milehicitygirl]

Ok... that's funny right there...

and it's "sammich".

my bad. . . "sammich". . . . next time Salsa, next time.

[Shea]

Yeah....they are easy to please.....what about what we need?....not so easy.

Do you not know what you need? I doubt it. The problem is in expressing it in a manner that a man can understand and respond to in a positive matter. We literally speak and convey thoughts/feelings differently.

If you are not getting what you want, try a different tack. If he is not responding to the way you are communicating, frame it differently. But in the end, perhaps a quote from Cool Hand Luke becomes apropos "There are some men you just can't reach...".

[Horsman]

As far as I can tell, men are uber-simple creatures. . . they need food, sex, sleep & respect. . . . not necessarily in that order ! LOL

Where have you been my whole life??? We need to clone women like you...

[Shea]

Where have you been my whole life??? We need to clone women like you...

Perfect example of how men are as varied as women.

[Nick_Ninja]

Perfect example of how men are as varied as women.

You could not be more correct.

[Devaclis]

You should ALWAYS be with a woman who is more awesome than you are. It has worked for me for 12 years.

[GrlRdr]

Here's the answer to all your questions...!!! The best "relationship" (eeks! Did I say that?) book ever!!!!

"Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey

I hate to admit it but...I've read my fair share of these so-called "relationship" books but this one just hits the spot! It is so true and simplifies things so well. It's written for women, but I think EVERYONE should read it (men will learn a lot from it, as well!). Society is falling apart and I think we need to get back to the basics to restore this thing called "LOVE" so...go out and read it!!! Hail CHIVALRY!

Really...it's liberating, eye-opening, WOW! and gave me a whole new outlook on relationships! I read all 229 pages in 2 evenings. I'd go over the basics to get you more interested but that would take way too long.

[Devaclis]

Chivalry is not dead. Only the woman who appreciate are.

[milehicitygirl]

Perfect example of how men are as varied as women.

LMAO !!

[milehicitygirl]

Here's the answer to all your questions...!!! The best "relationship" (eeks! Did I say that?) book ever!!!!

"Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey

I hate to admit it but...I've read my fair share of these so-called "relationship" books but this one just hits the spot! It is so true and simplifies things so well. It's written for women, but I think EVERYONE should read it (men will learn a lot from it, as well!). Society is falling apart and I think we need to get back to the basics to restore this thing called "LOVE" so...go out and read it!!! Hail CHIVALRY!

Really...it's liberating, eye-opening, WOW! and gave me a whole new outlook on relationships! I read all 229 pages in 2 evenings. I'd go over the basics to get you more interested but that would take way too long.

I have that book.. . . it's sitting on the end table waiting for me to read it. . .hahaha

[Devaclis]

[Horsman]

Here's the answer to all your questions...!!!
"Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man"

Oh Amber, I guess I need to start dressing up for Bike Night...

[GrlRdr]

Chivalry is not dead. Only the woman who appreciate are.

It's not dead...but it's barely breathing. And women are surrounded by so many men that don't even know the definition of chivalry that we've become accustomed to thinking it's not there or are just not sure how/afraid to demand it.

I have that book.. . . it's sitting on the end table waiting for me to read it. . .hahaha

Get to it!!!! And post back with your thoughts!

[Pandora-11]

Do you not know what you need? I doubt it. The problem is in expressing it in a manner that a man can understand and respond to in a positive matter. We literally speak and convey thoughts/feelings differently.

If you are not getting what you want, try a different tack. If he is not responding to the way you are communicating, frame it differently. But in the end, perhaps a quote from Cool Hand Luke becomes apropos "There are some men you just can't reach...".

Yes....25 years later...I've given up. I'm living Cool Hand Luke....I've framed it using sports terms (which is what he understands best).....maybe I need to get Chris Berman.

[GrlRdr]

That is hilarious! I'll be the first to admit that there are just as many women out there that have forgotten the values of relationships as there are men! But I can only speak from one side...yet I'm still advocating the book to BOTH sexes.

Oh Amber, I guess I need to start dressing up for Bike Night...

LOL! Can't wait to see what you're wearing next time! Is it gonna be this revealing????

[Horsman]

Only if you dress like Janet - damn it

[Shea]

Chivalry is not dead. Only the woman who appreciate are.

Truth

[Devaclis]

It's funny, I open doors for women here at work or offer to fill their coffee when I am holding the pot and they all look at me like I am going to rape them. One of our inters went so far as to say "you didn't have to do that, we aren't dating" Nice, so now you gotta be fucking a girl before she will appreciate you being nice. I guess that is why so many dudes are just dicks. It seems to work better.

[milehicitygirl]

Chivalry is not dead. Only the woman who appreciate are.

That's funny. . . . I just had a conversation with a guy friend of mine that said he's all for chivalry, but when a woman expects it it pisses him off. I tried to explain to him that women have given up expecting chivalry from men. . ..most don't even know how to spell it ! HA !

[MetaLord 9]

***Apparently this is getting blown out of proportion and taken the wrong way, so I'm adding a disclaimer:

THE FOLLOWING ASSIGNS NO VALUE JUDGEMENT TO ANYONE BECAUSE OF THEIR BEING SINGLE, IN A RELATIONSHIP, OR OTHERWISE. ***

Quick raise of hands from those who are giving man/woman relationship advice who are actually in a relationship, please.

[Devaclis]

I will raise nothing, and you will like it.

[Snowman]

So I figure like two, three generations and there will be nobody left

Ok, so being “Women” on this board, spill it. Tell us right her right now how do you want a guy (such as the cast of morons we have here, me included) to act when they are interested?

Life as a guy

[Devaclis]

I like to let a woman know I an interested by running up to them nekked and slapping my wiener back and forth on my thighs. At that point, they know, I am interested.

[milehicitygirl]

I like to let a woman know I an interested by running up to them nekked and slapping my wiener back and forth on my thighs. At that point, they know, I am interested.

L M F A O !!!

Uh, I'm gonna leave now. . . . .. that shit's scary !!