My company wants me to provide proof that I have insurance through my wifes work or they will force me to enroll in their insurance program. I told them that that is a violation of my privacy and I will not agree to have my personal information, including SS#, given to parties I do not approve of. Can they legally do this? If I refuse to provide them with my current insurance information, which they have no right to review, and they FORCE me to enroll, I am gonn burn the building down.