Do you not know what you need? I doubt it. The problem is in expressing it in a manner that a man can understand and respond to in a positive matter. We literally speak and convey thoughts/feelings differently.
If you are not getting what you want, try a different tack. If he is not responding to the way you are communicating, frame it differently. But in the end, perhaps a quote from Cool Hand Luke becomes apropos "There are some men you just can't reach...".
You should ALWAYS be with a woman who is more awesome than you are. It has worked for me for 12 years.
First rule of the internet: *bleep* you and everything you stand for. Second rule of the internet: FKZOR U AND RRYTHING U STND FR!
Here's the answer to all your questions...!!! The best "relationship" (eeks! Did I say that?) book ever!!!!
"Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey
I hate to admit it but...I've read my fair share of these so-called "relationship" books but this one just hits the spot! It is so true and simplifies things so well. It's written for women, but I think EVERYONE should read it (men will learn a lot from it, as well!). Society is falling apart and I think we need to get back to the basics to restore this thing called "LOVE" so...go out and read it!!! Hail CHIVALRY!
Really...it's liberating, eye-opening, WOW! and gave me a whole new outlook on relationships! I read all 229 pages in 2 evenings. I'd go over the basics to get you more interested but that would take way too long.
~AmBeR MaRiE~2005 Yamaha R6
Chivalry is not dead. Only the woman who appreciate are.
First rule of the internet: *bleep* you and everything you stand for. Second rule of the internet: FKZOR U AND RRYTHING U STND FR!
First rule of the internet: *bleep* you and everything you stand for. Second rule of the internet: FKZOR U AND RRYTHING U STND FR!
It's not dead...but it's barely breathing. And women are surrounded by so many men that don't even know the definition of chivalry that we've become accustomed to thinking it's not there or are just not sure how/afraid to demand it.
Get to it!!!! And post back with your thoughts!
~AmBeR MaRiE~2005 Yamaha R6
That is hilarious! I'll be the first to admit that there are just as many women out there that have forgotten the values of relationships as there are men! But I can only speak from one side...yet I'm still advocating the book to BOTH sexes.
LOL! Can't wait to see what you're wearing next time! Is it gonna be this revealing????
~AmBeR MaRiE~2005 Yamaha R6
Only if you dress like Janet - damn it
It's funny, I open doors for women here at work or offer to fill their coffee when I am holding the pot and they all look at me like I am going to rape them. One of our inters went so far as to say "you didn't have to do that, we aren't dating" Nice, so now you gotta be fucking a girl before she will appreciate you being nice. I guess that is why so many dudes are just dicks. It seems to work better.
First rule of the internet: *bleep* you and everything you stand for. Second rule of the internet: FKZOR U AND RRYTHING U STND FR!
That's funny. . . . I just had a conversation with a guy friend of mine that said he's all for chivalry, but when a woman expects it it pisses him off. I tried to explain to him that women have given up expecting chivalry from men. . ..most don't even know how to spell it ! HA !
- Kat -
'94 VFR750
"Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it." - Confucius
***Apparently this is getting blown out of proportion and taken the wrong way, so I'm adding a disclaimer:
THE FOLLOWING ASSIGNS NO VALUE JUDGEMENT TO ANYONE BECAUSE OF THEIR BEING SINGLE, IN A RELATIONSHIP, OR OTHERWISE. ***
Quick raise of hands from those who are giving man/woman relationship advice who are actually in a relationship, please.
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I will raise nothing, and you will like it.
First rule of the internet: *bleep* you and everything you stand for. Second rule of the internet: FKZOR U AND RRYTHING U STND FR!
So I figure like two, three generations and there will be nobody left
Ok, so being “Women” on this board, spill it. Tell us right her right now how do you want a guy (such as the cast of morons we have here, me included) to act when they are interested?
Life as a guy
I like to let a woman know I an interested by running up to them nekked and slapping my wiener back and forth on my thighs. At that point, they know, I am interested.
First rule of the internet: *bleep* you and everything you stand for. Second rule of the internet: FKZOR U AND RRYTHING U STND FR!