I'm not sure why you are so worried about keeping up with the group, We have never said that you need to try to keep up with us. We always wait for you, and have no problem doing so, and you know that if we thought something was wrong, we'd turn around and find you. There's nothing that says you need to try to keep up, or that you should feel like you are holding us up. We've told you that many times before. I'm sorry if you were getting the brunt of anything we did up front, but honestly a good number of our passes were in passing zones. But seriously, I don't think you should be so worried about trying to keep up with the group.
I also think your speedo is off... any time I'm following you, you are generally right under the speed limit. Except when we were headed home on 36 between fed & Broadway yesterday, you were about 20 over. My speedo is pretty exact, as I've compared it to gps so that I know exactly what my speed is. Aside from passing, and the highway from Lyons to the peak-to-peak turnoff where we were having fun, we were typically 5-10mph over. We were taking things pretty easy from Estes to peak-to-peak, honestly. And once we reached the bottom, I think we waited for you an entire 90 seconds. You weren't that far behind.
I just think you're telling yourself that you are holding us up, which is ABSOLUTELY not the case. It doesn't matter how fast you are going. You are part of the group, period.
OH, and just to add. I'm an asshole too!!