I totally agree.
I always wanted them to do the reverse, go after the horny 13 year old that is begging to get rammed and confront her/his parents and be like here is the chat log are you going to act like parents now and see what they do on the computer? The notion that its just the older guys wanting sex is a false notion....plenty of teens wanting to have sex too and not be forced.
I always found the people just showing up, were showing up...who knows what would happen, if anything!!! I mean after all chats can be total lies, I remember my chat days...chicks saying they were athletic and hot, you go to meet them and they are 350lbs and not hot at all....ages are typically lied about. Hell I dated a girl when I was at University, she claimed to be 18 (obviously she was a local from the town) and her age I found out after meeting her mother & step father (who never mentioned) turned out to be 16 (just turned too). And no she could pass as a 18 year old, which she did...even people in my dorm thought she was older when she came and visited...she just claimed she had no drivers license which was believable because they were pretty poor so one could believe that.
So hard to blame some young guy (20's) showing up not knowing what they will encounter...was the chat 100% BS, was it fantasy as most chats can be or is it reality... curious minds want to sometimes know and thus is why they show up. The older guys in their 40's are indeed the creeper one on that show...but they have lots on the younger dudes and even some so close to the age who cares.