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"...There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn't an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag. We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language...and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people."
-Theodore Roosevelt 1907
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Blu/Wht '01 Gixxer 1K, '91 KX500
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Tokin' SortaTalian
(Pronounced: Kind-A-Dago)
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"...There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn't an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag. We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language...and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people."
-Theodore Roosevelt 1907
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Blu/Wht '01 Gixxer 1K, '91 KX500
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Tokin' SortaTalian
(Pronounced: Kind-A-Dago)
That's a very unusual case. 1 out of thousands, if not tens of thousands. Most times, the male makes more, affecting alimony and child support. Also, a lawyer told my friend, that even if you can prove she's a crack-whore they will never take the kids form her, but all she has to do is CLAIM abuse on your part and you get your kids taken away. I've seen that happen in almost every men's case I've looked at. It's fucking bullshit. And then there is the abuse of civil rights, and your 4th amendment rights against search and seizure that the child support enforcement people will perform on you. It's a nightmare from start to finish......
I had to go pro se since I had no $$ for a lawyer, while she wasted over $25k on lawyers and PRE fees, that could have been better spent on my daughter's future college education......
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"...There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn't an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag. We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language...and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people."
-Theodore Roosevelt 1907
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Blu/Wht '01 Gixxer 1K, '91 KX500
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Tokin' SortaTalian
(Pronounced: Kind-A-Dago)
You have no fucking clue as to what you are talking about. I will say this, I wouldn't wish what you are going through on my worst enemy. But, let me make it perfectly clear, I don't regret that it's happening to you whatsoevah. You reap what you sow. #tiredoffranksbitchingaboutdivorce.com
"Its all about the motorbikes, always has been and always will be.". ~~ Ewan McGregor 2007
"It's hard to play the blues when nuthin's really wrong."~~ ---- Joe Walsh 2012
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2003 VFR800
2007 GSX-R600
2007 R1
2003 R6 Race bike
2010 Ducati SF1098
2016 60th R1
2018 Aprilia Tuono V4 1100RR
2024 Aprilia Tuono Factory Ultra Gold
And I thought I was bitter after I got divorced.
Now I'm just enjoying my mid life crisis. To bad I can't afford a hot rod with what I pay in "maintenance" and child support.
Wow you guys are really letting frank have it. Reminds me of high school. Lol.
Frank dint worry the ones giving you the majority of the shit are fucking pussys anyways. Their girls are probably fucking the someone else right now.
I wish someone would fuck my ex. Then maybe she'd be done fucking me.
You guys should just start fucking dudes.
KX65
Dizzer
929 - Yard Sale'd
1998 VFR800 Interceptor - resurrected and custom tail http://vfrworld.com/forums/5th-gener...98-vfr800.html
1999 DR650SE
This thread is beyond fucking epic lol
www.mo-door.com
https://64degreeracing.com/
2003 VFR800
2007 GSX-R600
2007 R1
2003 R6 Race bike
2010 Ducati SF1098
2016 60th R1
2018 Aprilia Tuono V4 1100RR
2024 Aprilia Tuono Factory Ultra Gold
ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ
"So live your life so the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about their religion; respect others in their views, and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and of service to your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide."
"Finish today what others won't, so you can achieve tomorrow what others can't."
Guess he doesn't want to cuddle. I was even going to be the inside spoon. Lame.
Thanks man. A marriage isn't just about two people who get along or are even in love with one another. It's about building a life and a family together. Even the best marriages have their rough patches and I'm sure we'll have more in the future.
But we're fully committed to each other. Before we got married, we went through per-marriage counseling. I think it was a requirement of the church to be honest but it probably helped We both agreed that there was no such thing as divorce. Failure is not an option.
In the 10+ years we have been together, we've both grown and evolved but we've done it together.
I can't empahsise enough how important having a partner is, especially in the hard times. It means you never have to go through life alone.
On that note it's also important to give each other their space. Mrs. Clovis is incredibly understanding and lets me take off nearly every weekend during the riding season and go off for 2-3 day trips without much of a fuss. She in turn goes to Fort Collins (her home town and where her family lives) at least once per month.
For our annivsary last year we took a 3 day motorcycle trip to Mesa Verde and back. We hit an oil/sand/mud slick and went sliding while cruising at 70+ mph.
We were both in full leathers. We picked up the bike and continued on, stopping in Durango that night to replace a foot peg. Despite the crash, that was my most memorable motorcycle adventure because I got to share it with my wife. She's the sole reason I bought a FJR. I wanted a bike big enough for 2 up riding the 500+ mile days I like to do.
A successful marriage (IMO) involved a fair amount of luck (in not marrying a psychopath... pro tip, don't marry girls you met at a bar or 'da club'!) but commitment and trust to each other more then anything else.
I won't argue that many people, men and woman, have gotten utterly roasted in a divorce, but don't let that scare you off from the chance of a life time.
Choose wisely.
Justin
"If not us, who? If not now, when?"
Townie how many times have you been married?
None. Two long term relationships about six years each. I already know why I'm single. I'm retarded.
"Its all about the motorbikes, always has been and always will be.". ~~ Ewan McGregor 2007
"It's hard to play the blues when nuthin's really wrong."~~ ---- Joe Walsh 2012
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