Aren't you super religious? Perhaps, I'm wrong, the screen name if familiar, but I don't recognize the avatar...
Since, I'm always willing to go waaaay out on a limb... I'll go ahead and say what was on my mind.
I'm surprised to hear a religious person preach about not being married, not wanting to have kids, and dodging a bullet. Dodging a bullet implies premarital sex. And, don't religious people claim that being married and having kids is the "bomb"? That's why god put us here.
Anyway, you're 1,000,000% correct!!! Well, about kids, anyway. I love being married, 25 years, now. Don't wait until you're 40, though. Guys are dicks and chicks are BAT SHIT CRAZY!!!! You wait until you're forty and you'll need a straight-jacket...