well gizzmo....WELCOME. i am in the same boat...after almost 5 years, have 2 kids, and 2 months ago kerplump.....here i am on my ass.
well gizzmo....WELCOME. i am in the same boat...after almost 5 years, have 2 kids, and 2 months ago kerplump.....here i am on my ass.
Haha honestly I am not sure how people go on dealing with this. I've been called a stone cold feeler-less person before and this cut to the core.
I decided to take a break from drinking during this because of how i am feeling....bad idea because half the people that find out want to take me out and get me smashed....
Its weird when you try to talk to her and she seems so disconnected and over it.....
Over the years you find out most of your friends get married and move away but you dont mind because you have her (or him) then one day you wake up and its over and you have to crawl back to old friends that are married and happy just to take your mind off things.....
Cathy has good advice but of course "time" takes time ugh
1998 CBR600F3 "Desert Storm" - SOLD
WAS keeping the banana seat alive!
Well maybe not as fucked up as you....but yeah, we're pretty out there.
(J/K man)
What can I say, I like one stop shopping.
Really?!?!?
One single F-Bomb?......That's it?
Dude, you're waisting your potential.
Oh Shit! What if you have to ask yourself that every single ride?
(I may have dementia.)
Be assured that a walk through the ocean of most souls would scarcely get your feet wet.
There is something to be said about using diversions to get distance from your problems. I ride often to get away from my problems. It allows for a different perspective once you get off the bike, then you can figure out the possibilities you were too close to see before.
~Brandon~
Aprilia RSV 1000 R Factory - "Gemma"
MV Agusta F3 800 - "Amy Lou"
Rattan Fat Bear Plus - "Lynda"
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I rarely think of motorcycles without a little yearning. They are about moving, and humans, I think, yearn to move – it’s in our cells, in our desires. We quiet our babies with cyclic movement, and we quiet ourselves by going.
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When life throws you curves, aim for the apex
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Geez. I only said that because quite a few people mentioned it. I didn't want to bore or depress you or anyone else by posting my reasons. Honestly I figured she would know why I would say that. I certainly didn't expect a PM from her or anyone else but I also didn't want to get called out for not explaining myself.
Oh and another thing I found that really helps me when I have a lot on my mind is going on walks or hikes out in the middle of nowhere. Just me and the trees. Find a nice quiet spot and just sit there and breathe it in. Very peaceful.
The time to hesitate is through
No time to wallow in the mire
Try now we can only lose
And our love become a funeral pyre
07 cbr600rr - cookie
02 yzf600r - sold
You know I'm just hackin' on you, Wycktina.
~Brandon~
Aprilia RSV 1000 R Factory - "Gemma"
MV Agusta F3 800 - "Amy Lou"
Rattan Fat Bear Plus - "Lynda"
(720) 935-6438
I rarely think of motorcycles without a little yearning. They are about moving, and humans, I think, yearn to move – it’s in our cells, in our desires. We quiet our babies with cyclic movement, and we quiet ourselves by going.
Melissa Holbrook Pierson
Relationships are the debil
"Its all about the motorbikes, always has been and always will be.". ~~ Ewan McGregor 2007
"It's hard to play the blues when nuthin's really wrong."~~ ---- Joe Walsh 2012
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"My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government." Thomas Jefferson
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"...There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn't an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag. We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language...and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people."
-Theodore Roosevelt 1907
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Tokin' SortaTalian
(Pronounced: Kind-A-Dago)
....I usually just stalk them until they give in......
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"...There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn't an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag. We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language...and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people."
-Theodore Roosevelt 1907
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Blu/Wht '01 Gixxer 1K, '91 KX500
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Tokin' SortaTalian
(Pronounced: Kind-A-Dago)
The logic is there why not to do it for me:
-Hoping she will come back.....
-End up transferring feelings immediately to the next person with out cooling off from this relationship
-Dont need anymore drama while i attempt to rebuild ie a stage five clinger....
Already been on hikes and walks with the puppy and friends....one good thing about Colorado is it doesnt take much to get out of the city...but again sucks to do it alone.
1998 CBR600F3 "Desert Storm" - SOLD
WAS keeping the banana seat alive!
"Its all about the motorbikes, always has been and always will be.". ~~ Ewan McGregor 2007
"It's hard to play the blues when nuthin's really wrong."~~ ---- Joe Walsh 2012
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i've never done that, but it could be used in a movie.
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Be assured that a walk through the ocean of most souls would scarcely get your feet wet.
Remember, sometimes they leave because it is your fault. You can't always blame someone else for sucking. I've tried.
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